Monday, January 22, 2007

MEN SUFFER HARRASSMENT TOO!

Hey guys...not sure how much this has to do with the hollaback movement...but no one else is sending me much so I thought I might put this on here...maybe some of you have some advise for this guy?

"I HAVE BEEN HARRASST FOR THE PAST YEAR AND A HALF BY A WOMAN THAT HAS BLOWN UP MY PHONE, FOLLOWS ME, HAS SPREAD RUMORS ABOUT ME, GOT A JOB AT MY HANG OUT AND STARTED WARDING OFF ANY POTENTIAL DATES, TELLS OTHER WOMEN THAT IM HER BOYFRIEND AND THE LIST GOES ON. WHATS A MAN TO DO......?"

Anyone?

4 comments:

Valerie F said...

Restraining order. Immediately.

Seriously though, this woman sounds like she has some issues. The fact that she's spreading rumors is already grounds for slander. Change your cell phone number, find a different hang out, tell your friends and family not to give her any (more) info about you (hell, makeup fliers if you have to). If this continues, you may have the right to call the police and have the Baker Act enacted against her.

Sheldonrs said...

Report her to the police. Even if they can't do anything yet (unless you have proof) then at least it will be on record to go along with anything that might happen in the future.

Anonymous said...

How to handle the hang out thing: if she pesters you or otherwise f's up your ability to chill, approach her manager, tell him what's going on, and threaten to cease giving his establishment business unless action is taken. Tell him that your friends will be leaving with you, and that thus he stands to lose a lot of regular customers as a result.

That should at least remove the stalker from your hang out, or at least make her behave. Good luck!

twoluvcats said...

if there is ANY proveable phone harassment (i.e. hang up calls, harassing messages etc etc) going on, you can sick the phone company on her without having to be directly involved (except for allowing a trace/trap on your phone).